Far from the Tree (BBC website)
The time-worn adage says that the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, meaning that a child resembles his or her parents.
The children described in this book are apples that have fallen elsewhere - some a couple of orchards away, some on the other side of the world.
Yet myriad families learn to tolerate, accept and finally celebrate children who are not what they originally had in mind.
Andrew Solomon introduces us to families coping with deafness, Down syndrome, autism, schizophrenia, and disability - as well as families who have children who are prodigies, who are gay, or who become criminals.
Growing up gay and also struggling with dyslexia led Andrew Solomon to reflect on those situations where a child arrives in a family and is immediately an 'outsider'. 'Parenthood,' he writes, 'abruptly catapults us into a permanent relationship with a stranger'.
Read by Kerry Shale
Abridged and produced by Jill Waters
Read more about the book: Far From the Tree